Stage 3: Analyze
The Decision Triangle Solutions method creates a Win-Win to the conflict resolution using reciprocal, accurate, and balanced perspective-taking. Analyze your interaction based on all three dimensions:
Reciprocal: Do you and the other person take turns listening to each other (as opposed to just waiting your turn to talk again)?
Accurate: Do you check to make sure you are expressing yourself truly accurately (from your own perspective) and are you really hearing the other person without filters or distortions?
Balance: Do both of you feel sufficiently listened to by the other? Do you take in as much as you express? Is there a 50-50 balance in this interaction?