
Getting Started with
Decision Triangle Solutions®
Decision Triangle Solutions® is designed to transform conflict into connection. This process helps you create meaningful and sustainable relationships by aligning decision-making through balanced, reciprocal perspective-taking.
Below you will find tools and information you need to get started.
Why DTS?
It’s human nature to question others’ intentions -- especially in conflict. But this can create miscommunication, mistrust, and disconnect.
Decision Triangle Solutions® teaches you to slow down, disengage from knee-jerk reactions, and explore each other's perspectives in a structured, safe, and productive way.
How to Do DTS
Decision Triangle Solutions® provides a structured 5-step process to help you and your partner communicate openly, listen fully, and make decisions together without resentment or scorekeeping.
By following this method, you’ll learn how to step back, reflect, and re-engage in a way that strengthens trust and connection. Ready to get started?
Rules of Engagement
To create a space for growth, understanding, and connection, we follow a set of core principles designed to keep our work collaborative, respectful, and focused on progress. These rules form the foundation of Decision Triangle Solutions® and ensure a clear and safe path forward and must be agreed upon by both parties before we begin.
More details will be provided once you engage in treatment with me, but the basic rules for safety are the acknowledgement that:
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Everyone has a right to their perspective.
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No one is allowed to belittle the other person or use what is said against them.
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If someone needs to stop the discussion, they are allowed to do so.