
Getting Started with
Decision Triangle Solutions®
Decision Triangle Solutions® is designed to transform conflict into connection. This process helps you create meaningful and sustainable relationships by aligning decision-making through balanced, reciprocal perspective-taking.
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Below you will find tools and information you need to get started.
Why DTS?
It’s human nature to question others’ intentions -- especially in conflict. But this can create miscommunication, mistrust, and disconnect.
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Decision Triangle Solutions® teaches you to slow down, disengage from knee-jerk reactions, and explore each other's perspectives in a structured, safe, and productive way. ​
How to Do DTS
Decision Triangle Solutions® provides a structured 5-step process to help you and your partner communicate openly, listen fully, and make decisions together without resentment or scorekeeping.
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By following this method, you’ll learn how to step back, reflect, and re-engage in a way that strengthens trust and connection. Ready to get started?
Rules of Engagement
To create a space for growth, understanding, and connection, we follow a set of core principles designed to keep our work collaborative, respectful, and focused on progress. These rules form the foundation of Decision Triangle Solutions® and ensure a clear and safe path forward and must be agreed upon by both parties before we begin. ​
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More details will be provided once you engage in treatment with me, but the basic rules for safety are the acknowledgement that:
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Everyone has a right to their perspective.
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No one is allowed to belittle the other person or use what is said against them.
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If someone needs to stop the discussion, they are allowed to do so.